Wednesday, July 22, 2009
Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?
We have all heard this expression. But what does it really mean? Why would a guy want to be in a committed relationship with you, when he can get the botty for free? I have been guilty of this a time or two.
Have you ever met a guy you had great chemistry with, you go out have a nice dinner or two, watch a couple of flicks together? You just connect. You have the discussion about relationships and you let him know you are looking for someone special and he says he is too. Then the next thing you know you are face down ass up with him in your apartment and you think you are now dating exclusively.
Now the weekend dates are during the week and you are sexing more than you ever went out on dates. You mention that your friends are having a get together and invite him to go and then BOoMB! He tells you he isn't ready for a relationship and that commitment stuff. You are stunned and amazed he said that shit to you after you shared intimate moments together and after he said he wanted a relationship.
Honey you just got duped. Bamboosled. Hoodwinked for the pussy. He then switches it up and tells you that he does want a relationship just not right now, or he is focusing on his career and dosen't need any distractions, blah blah blah. Naw nigga you got the pussy now you don't want to be exclusive so you can see what else is out there. Or you got the pussy and you like fucking me hanging out with me but now you realize I'm not "that girl" your searching for.
Ladies I have been through this and my advise to you is DON'T CUT THAT NIGGA. DON'T BE SALTY ABOUT THE SITUATION. JUST DON'T PUT YOURSELF IN THAT SITUATION AGAIN. If he dosen't want to be in a relationship with you...tell that nigga to kick rocks. Remember you are the shit and you can get new dick even if you can't find food to eat!
Learn from your mistakes. If you really feel a connection with a new guy, make him wait for the pussy. If you feel he could be your "Prince Charming" "The One". Then he has the rest of your live to beat that shit from the back. Don't be in such a rush to give him all the goodies. Make him give you that commitment first and work for the pussy. That way you won't feel used, lied to, confussed when you don't get the commitment you were looking for.
And remember if you are in this situation don't fool yourself by thinking that he will come around and give you the commitment you want if you just keep being nice, or keep giving him pussy, or if you just this or that. This only reinforces his bad behavior.
I'm not giving away no more free milk!
Holla
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I would forward this to a friend because she needs to read this but it would just go over her head.
ReplyDeleteThank you for this because I played myself thining that if I gave in everthing would be good but it's not
ReplyDeleteLadies don't fall for the okey doke....
ReplyDeleteI'm need a public confession before I think we're in an exclusive relationship... trust me I was in a 2 year stand... (a one night stand that lasted wayy to long) in hopes that an exclusive relationship would flourish in due time. Chile, pluuhhlease. I'm now need a substantial down payment for the milk, a credit check, 3 references, and a certified letter from your bank before I'ma give you a drop of the milk.
Reading your blog it was like you had a tape recorder up to his mouth... Every excuse heard it before, knew it was a joke when I heard it! Complete and utter bullshit.
Every woman needs to read this and remember it.