Book Review: Sexual Abuse & How it affects our Sex Life

From Memoirs of Madame Fellatio

This is a discussion of the book "Push" by Sapphire. This is a book that Tyler Perry and Oprah are turning in to a movie called "Precious" in the fall.

This book is a bout a urban obese teen that was abused by both her mother and her father. The things that this girl endured straight sickend me. Not only was her father finger banging her and sticking his dick in her at age 3, her fat mother was making her eat her stank ass pussy as well... This poor child even had two of her father's children starting at age 12!

I don't want to spoil the book for anyone so I will stop there. But what truely makes me mad is that the system failed her. She should have been yanked by CPS with the first kid. The book really made me stop and think of how many children are out there being abused behind closed doors, how adults see the signs of abuse, and ain't doing a damn thing about it. No young child should ever have to endure what this young lady went through.

Unfortunately, the abuse and early sexual experiences with her parents mold her relationships and sexual behavior for the rest of her life! I wonder how many women are uncomfortable with sex, ashamed of their bodies, homosexual, bi-sexual, or maybe even bonified freaks because of sexual abuse.

If you were a victim of sexual abuse, let me begin by saying I'm sorry that this happened to you and encourage you to get some counseling or join a support group of women with similar experiences. If you have struggles with overcoming this abuse and/or have intimacy issues please seek out help you deserve to have a happy and satisfying sex life!

I encourage everyone to read this book and go see the movie this fall.

Holla.